Life is a lot like that race. Setbacks are unavoidable. Whether it's a sudden trip or an unexpected challenge, they can knock you down when you least expect it. The real question is: How will you respond?
In Your Best Year Ever, Michael Hyatt explains that setbacks aren’t failures—they’re simply opportunities to adjust and keep moving forward. The moment we stumble isn’t what defines us; it’s what we do after the fall. Heather’s race illustrates that the defining moment is in getting back up and pushing harder.
If you haven’t seen the video of Heather’s race, you can click left to watch. It's worth your two minutes, and you might want to grab some popcorn.Heather’s story is a perfect reminder of what to do when life trips us in the short run. But sometimes, challenges are more than just a quick fall—they can drag on for a while, demanding even more persistence. That’s where Bob Goff’s story comes in. His journey to law school wasn’t a single fail—it was a marathon of rejections, setbacks, and delays. But, like Heather, he refused to let those obstacles define him. He chose to show up, again and again.
The Unlikely Path to Law School: Persistence and Purpose
Bob Goff’s journey to becoming an attorney was anything but typical. When this surfer dude sat for the LSAT, he was the only one in the room who hadn’t taken a review course—he didn’t know one existed! Unsurprisingly, Bob described his scores as being, “laughable.” Rejection letters flowed in, with many schools not bothering to respond, and one even refunded his application fee.
But instead of giving up, Bob took a bold step: he drove to the University of San Diego School of Law and walked straight into the dean’s office, determined to make his case in person.
Bob wasn’t hoping for a meeting—he was determined to change his situation. So, day after day, he showed up and camped out on the bench in front of the dean’s office. His sit-in wasn’t passive —it was active commitment. Bob wasn’t waiting for an invitation; he was making his own path by showing up, no matter the outcome. For the better part of a month, the dean ignored him, but Bob kept coming back.
The Moment of Acceptance: "Go Buy Your Books"
After weeks of ‘playing statue’ in the dean’s office, Bob got his answer. He remembers the moment when the dean finally said, “Go buy your books.” No fanfare. No long speech. Just a quiet, “Okay, fine, you win.” moment.
Even with the green light to start, Bob was already behind—classes had been in session for a week, and he had ground to make up. But quitting wasn’t an option. Driven by his desire to help people and make a difference, Bob threw himself into the coursework, learning quickly and working harder than anyone else.
His journey wasn’t just about a late start or persistence with the dean. It was about belief, perseverance, and purpose. For Bob, becoming a lawyer wasn’t about prestige or titles; it was a way to serve others, stand up for the marginalized, and create real change.
That deep sense of purpose kept Bob going, even when quitting would have been the easier path. I love his story because it shows that persistence isn’t always a dramatic, last-minute sprint to the finish line, like Heather Dorniden’s epic comeback. Sometimes, it’s the quiet, steady grind—showing up day after day, even when no one else believes you stand a chance.
For Bob, that persistence paid off. Not only did he become a successful lawyer, but he now serves as a diplomat representing the Republic of Uganda—living proof of what’s possible when you pair relentless determination with a clear sense of purpose. (For more inspirational and entertaining stories about Bob, check out his book, Love Does!)
Key Lessons from Bob’s Story:
Don’t give up. Nothing worth doing is easy, but the effort and sacrifice are worth it in the end.
Have a reason to keep going. Bob’s desire to help others kept him moving forward.
Success takes time. Big goals don’t happen overnight. You can’t earn a degree in one semester, lose 100 pounds in a month, or fix a broken marriage with a weekend getaway. Real progress takes time.
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Expect Setbacks and Adjust—Your Strategy for Success
You guys, setbacks are part of the deal, but they're not failures- only opportunities to learn and grow. We can bounce back when life throws us off track. Here’s how to stay on course when things don’t go as expected.What to Do When Things Don’t Go as Planned
- Plan for ObstaclesThink about what might get in your way, like running out of time or losing motivation. Preparing for these challenges helps you stay on track.
Have a Backup Plan
If things go off course, have an alternative ready. For example, if you missed a workout, just take a quick walk instead.See Problems as Opportunities
Take note of what went wrong, stay focused on your "why," and keep moving forward.
Embrace the Setback, Fuel the Comeback
Heather Dorniden got back up mid-race and won. Bob Goff refused to take no for an answer. Their stories remind us: what matters isn’t avoiding challenges but how we respond.
So, what happens after a setback? How do you keep pushing forward when the finish line seems far away? In the next post, we’ll explore a secret weapon to build momentum and stay committed to your goals. Trust me—it’s something you won’t want to miss.
Take care, stay curious, and I’ll see you then!
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Your Best Year Ever by Michael Hyatt
Love Does by Bob Goff
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The Let Them Theory by Mel Robbins
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