Thursday, November 20, 2025

Slow Productivity by Cal Newport

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The moment Slow Productivity came out, it was everywhere — named Best Book of 2024 by The Economist and NPR, a Best in Business Book by both the Globe and Mail and SABEW, and widely praised by well-known entrepreneurs on social media. Naturally, I had to see what all the fuss was about. And it is genuinely good: thoughtful, carefully researched, and full of ideas that make you stop and think. Still, after all that attention, it landed a little softer for me than I expected. Having read a lot in this space, the ideas weren’t completely new.

That said, there are plenty of insights worth taking away. Newport makes a compelling case that knowledge work — the kind most of us do behind screens — is different from other types of work because it has no natural rhythm or season. You can work around the clock, and many of us feel like we should. His reminder to slow down, focus on fewer things, and prioritize quality over quantity is valuable, even if the delivery wasn't my favorite.

What resonated with me most wasn’t the originality of the ideas, but the reminder of why knowledge work feels so slippery — why Newport’s call to slow down is easier said than done. It really brought home how different it is to track progress when the results aren’t visible, when there’s no finished product to point toward.

It made me think of the contrast I see every day in my own family. My dad’s a craftsman, and when he builds something, it’s obvious he’s been at work. Sawdust in his hair, sweat on his back, maybe a cut or two from the day — and by evening, there’s something solid to show for it. A deck. A cabinet. A room transformed. You can see his progress with your eyes and trace it with your hands.

My husband works just as hard, though it looks nothing like building or creating. His days are a balancing act of projects, people, and fires that never stop burning. Deadlines are met, decisions are made, problems are solved — but there’s no sawdust, no splinters, no final product to step back and admire. Progress exists, but it’s quiet, invisible, measured only in emails sent, meetings survived, and crises averted, day after day.

The contrast between their two occupations is striking. One ends the day with a visible harvest; the other ends it with loose ends. That’s the strange thing about modern work — we labor just as intensely as generations before us, but often with nothing tangible to hold. Knowledge work doesn’t offer the same sense of completion. The progress is subtle, slow, and mostly invisible. Without clear seasons of effort and rest, the work never really feels done.

That’s why Newport’s message hits home. He pushes back against the temptation to measure progress by how much you’ve done, instead urging us to look at whether the work we choose is truly meaningful. He suggests finding a more natural pace, building in seasons of focus and seasons of rest, instead of treating every day like a sprint. And he argues that quality — careful, deliberate work — will always matter more than sheer volume.

I’ll be honest: I have not done this well. If you looked at my calendar over the past two years, you’d either laugh (or call me a hypocrite — and you’d be right). Wes and I have been grinding through a season that’s left little room to breathe. So, I’m not sharing this as someone who’s nailed it. I’m just passing along what I’m slowly learning, sometimes the hard way. Without intentionally stopping, the work will never stop for you.

Rethinking Success

One of the book’s meaningful ideas is Newport’s reminder that “overnight success” is mostly a myth. The stories we tell about achievement often skip the middle — the long, quiet stretch where the real work happens. We see the book release, the breakthrough, the polished final result. What we don’t see are the years of unseen drafts, detours, and doubts that made it possible.

Jane Austen
didn’t just sit down one day and write Pride and Prejudice. Her brilliance grew in the hidden, ordinary rhythms of daily life — letters written, ideas rewritten, slow refinements that shaped her voice.



Andrew Wiles, the mathematician who solved Fermat’s Last Theorem, spent seven years working in near-total secrecy — not for fame, but for the sheer love of solving the puzzle. Seven years! Most of us would have quit or moved on to something shinier long before that.

And Benjamin Franklin — the man who seemed to do everything — didn’t become the famed founding father and inventor overnight. His legacy was built on decades of small experiments, failures, and course corrections, guided by a steady commitment to grow just a little wiser each year.

The truth is, most great work ripens slowly. It matures in the hidden years — in the drafts no one reads, the efforts no one applauds, the choices no one notices. We live in a world that celebrates speed, but lasting impact usually takes time, humility, and a quiet faithfulness to keep showing up even when there’s nothing flashy to show for it.
The Barefoot Takeaway

After reading Slow Productivity, a few ideas really stuck with me — the kind that circle back during quiet moments or long drives. And just to be clear, I’m not sharing these as someone who’s perfected them. Not even close. I’m more like a classmate, just passing along the notes I scribbled from today’s lecture — hoping they might help you too.

Here are the lessons I’m carrying with me for now, the ones I’m trying to practice in real time, even if imperfectly.

First: prune.
Cut what doesn’t matter so you can focus on what does. I’m still learning to do this without guilt — without feeling like I’m letting people down when I say no. But pruning is what makes growth possible.





Second: build breathing room.
Creativity and clarity don’t come from constant motion. They come when we make space to think. I’m realizing that reflection isn’t a luxury — it’s oxygen.

Third: play the long game.
If Austen, Wiles, and Franklin took years — sometimes decades — to create their best work, it’s okay if ours takes time too. Progress built slowly tends to last.

And finally: think decades, not days.
Bill Gates is widely credited with saying, "Most people overestimate what they can achieve in a year and underestimate what they can achieve in ten years.”
That line hits home for me. Slow productivity isn’t about slacking — it’s about staying in the game long enough to create something that matters.

Books That Build on These Ideas

Slow Productivity is thoughtful and steady, and Newport makes a lot of good points. That said, if you’ve been around the productivity space, some ideas might feel familiar. Here are a few books I love that explore similar territory with a bit more narrative, and energy:

Essentialism by Greg McKeown — This one gets to the heart of “less but better.” It’s practical, memorable, and written in a way that really sticks.

Feel Good Productivity by Ali Abdaal — A lighter, more energizing take on meaningful work. Ali reminds us that productivity doesn’t have to feel heavy, and joy can actually fuel good work.

The Dip by Seth Godin — A short, punchy read about pushing through the hard middle. 

The 4-Hour Workweek by Tim Ferriss — Ferriss goes further into systems and lifestyle design — how to shape your work so it serves your life, not the other way around. (This one is edgy but brilliant.)

The Ruthless Elimination of Hurry by John Mark Comer — My personal favorite. It’s soulful and faith-filled, offering a whole-life approach to slowing down that goes beyond productivity and into peace.

Newport’s book is quieter, more academic, and research-driven, but it’s still a solid guide for anyone wanting to slow down and focus on what really matters.

Bottom line, Newport argues: busy work isn’t meaningful work. Slow, deliberate, focused effort is what builds something worth leaving behind. He reminds us of that — quietly, patiently, with steady wisdom, even if the writing isn’t flashy.

Will I reread Slow Productivity? Probably not. But am I glad I read it? Yes — for the gentle nudge to slow down and remember that not every hour needs to be filled. If you’re teetering on the edge of burnout or just tired of feeling “busy but behind,” this book might be the reset you need.

As for me, I’ll be pruning my to-do list, taking a deep breath, and choosing a slower, steadier rhythm. That’s all for now. Take care, stay curious, and I’ll see you next time. 🌿




Thursday, November 13, 2025

How Successful People Think

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Have you ever noticed how successful people just seem to see things differently? It’s not that they have more hours in the day or more natural talent — they just think in ways that open up possibilities most of us overlook.

How Successful People Think is a short read that quietly shifts how you approach everything — goals, relationships, work, and even faith.

Now, I should say up front — I’m not sharing this because I’ve mastered it. Far from it.
These aren’t polished lessons from a sage — just notes from a friend who’s trying to grow, and hoping they might spark something good in you, too.

Maxwell outlines eleven ways successful people think differently — and each one feels like a gentle nudge toward becoming a little more intentional, a little more hopeful, and a little more grounded. Today, I’ll walk you through a few of my favorites — the ones that challenged, inspired, and, if I’m honest, convicted me a bit too.

So pour yourself a cup of something warm, settle in, and let’s talk about what it really means to think like a successful person — from the inside out.

Chapter 1. Cultivate Big Picture Thinking

Big-picture thinkers zoom out before they zoom in. They step back from the chaos of daily life to see how today’s decisions fit into the larger story.

Most people wake up and think through their daily to-dos — some of us don’t even get that far. Others might plan in weekly chunks, checking boxes and hoping nothing slips through. Maxwell challenges us to think further than that. He recommends taking half a day each month to plan the next 40 days and a few days each year to plan annually — intentionally looking at your calendar like a chessboard in light of your goals.

I loved this because, honestly, I’ve always been proud of my ability to maximize a week’s 168 hours. I schedule, stack, and Tetris every minute… and yes, it often works. Until it doesn’t. The missing piece? Margin. Life, relationships, and unexpected opportunities don’t always fit neatly into my carefully mapped schedule. Big-picture thinking reminded me that planning isn’t just about filling every block — it’s about connecting what I do today to the bigger story I want to live, while leaving room for grace, rest, and the unforeseen.

So, just for a moment, think about your own schedule. Are you planning in a way that really serves your bigger story, or are you just filling the hours?

Chapter 2. Engage in Focused Thinking 

Maxwell’s advice here deeply resonated: he encourages us to carve out intentional thinking time. Not just for planning, but for reflecting, prioritizing, and deciding what deserves our attention. And the best part? It doesn’t have to be elaborate. Right now, I’m trying something simple — just driving in silence rather than listening to anything in the car. It’s tiny, but it gives my mind a chance to breathe and actually think.


It’s amazing how easily noise can crowd out clarity. For me, it’s usually a dinging phone, or the doom scroll on YouTube disguised as being “educational.” We think we’re being productive, but a lot of the time, it’s just activity without progress.

I’m guilty of jumping from one thing to the next, trying to check every box, and thinking busyness equals effectiveness. But focused thinking is the difference between just moving and actually moving in the right direction.

So here’s a little question for you to chew on: Are you giving yourself space to think clearly, or are you letting the noise of the day decide what matters most?

Chapter 3. Harness Creative Thinking 

Creative thinking isn’t about being “artsy” — it’s really about curiosity. It’s asking questions, exploring possibilities, and looking at things in ways others might not have considered.

My students are incredible sources of fresh ideas! Kids naturally think outside the box because they haven’t yet learned to squash themselves inside it. If they think something, it will come out of their mouths — and after a little refining, those ideas can become really valuable.

One day, one of my 4th grade classes decided to create a story together —no rules, just pure imagination. They stated spitballing wild ideas, and I couldn't believe how their creativity snowballed. What began as scattered thoughts slowly took shape into something far richer than anything my adult brain could've concocted. Guiding them through that process reminded me how powerful imagination really is —and how much we can learn when we let go of control and explore together.

Maxwell says that if you struggle with creative thinking, surround yourself with creative people — their mindset will rub off on you. And seriously, kids are perfect for that. Spend time with curious minds, and you’ll be amazed at how much it sparks your own thinking.

Chapter 4. Employ Realistic Thinking

Realistic thinking is all about weighing the pros and cons honestly and preparing for what might go wrong.

This one reminded me that realism isn’t negativity — it’s wisdom in work boots. It’s the kind of thinking that helps you see obstacles before they knock you off course, without stealing your hope or enthusiasm. Maxwell points out that thinking realistically doesn’t mean you’re a pessimist; it means you’re smart enough to plan for potholes while still keeping your eyes on the road ahead.

I follow a financial podcast that illustrates this perfectly. The hosts often talk about wearing “3D glasses.” When planning, you create three versions of a plan. 

  • There’s the dream plan, where everything goes perfectly; 

  • the down-to-earth plan, which is more likely; 

  • and the doo-doo plan, where Murphy moves in and everything that can go wrong does. 

You never hope for the worst, but if it's at least considered, you won’t be taken off guard — and you might even be pleasantly surprised when things go better than expected.

I’ve learned the hard way that hope is beautiful, but it’s the plan that keeps a dream alive. Dreams without preparation can fizzle, and preparation without hope can feel lifeless. Realistic thinking is the sweet spot where both come together.

So here’s a little question for you: When you’re chasing a goal, are you dreaming blindly, or are you planning wisely for the bumps along the way?

Chapter 5. Utilize Strategic Thinking 

People often say, “Rome wasn’t built in a day.” The same goes for the Twin Towers — 110 stories don't materialize without careful, deliberate, strategic planning. My students and I learned the details this year during our 9/11 study, and my inner nerd was completely fascinated! The towers' foundation work began with an extraordinary feat: digging a massive hole over 70 feet deep into Manhattan's bedrock. But that was just the beginning.

To prevent the Hudson River from flooding the site, engineers constructed a watertight barrier known as a "slurry wall." This wall was built by excavating narrow trenches, each about 3 feet wide and 70 feet deep, then filling them with a viscous clay mixture. Steel reinforcement was added, and concrete was poured to form a solid, impermeable barrier. This meticulous process created a "bathtub" — a subterranean basin that kept the river’s water at bay during construction and throughout the towers’ existence.

Only after securing this foundation could the actual towers be built. The North Tower rose to 1,368 feet, and the South Tower to 1,362 feet, each with 110 stories.

The strategic foresight paid off: these buildings supported tens of thousands of people daily for decades. In 1993, a terrorist bomb exploded in the underground parking garage of the North Tower. The blast caused significant damage, but the slurry wall and foundation held firm, preserving the structural integrity of the towers.

The lesson is clear: strategic thinking isn’t about rushing to the top. It’s about laying a strong foundation, anticipating challenges, and taking deliberate steps so that the structures — or goals — you’re building today can stand tall tomorrow.

Chapter 6. Explore Possibility Thinking 

Maxwell says, “Make your plans as fantastic as you like, because twenty-five years from now, they’ll seem mediocre.” That line stuck with me. Sometimes I hold back from dreaming big because I don’t want to risk falling short or being disappointed. But possibility thinking is really about asking, “What if this actually works?” and giving yourself permission to aim higher than you normally would.

I’ve found that when you set bold goals and throw everything you have at them, even if you fall short, you’ll still land further ahead than you would have by playing it safe. That’s the beauty of possibility thinking—it keeps you moving forward, even when things don’t go exactly as planned.

Still, there’s a balance to strike. I see it all the time in the classroom—kids dream of becoming professional athletes, famous musicians, or even president. Could it happen? Absolutely! Is it statistically likely? Not so much. The key is helping them learn how to pair big dreams with grounded action. That’s where real growth happens: when imagination meets strategy.

At home, my husband and I have these wild brainstorming sessions where any idea—no matter how outlandish—is fair game. Most of them go absolutely nowhere, but every once in a while, one sticks. And when it does, it’s usually something pretty special.

Possibility thinking, I’ve learned, is equal parts wonder and work. It’s what happens when you give yourself room to dream—and the courage to try.

Chapter 7. Learn From Reflective Thinking 

John Maxwell says, “Reflective thinking turns experience into insight.” I love that idea. It’s not the experiences themselves that make us wise—it’s taking the time to look back and actually learn from them.

I’ve seen this play out in my own life. When I was younger, I remember praying and asking God for wisdom about a specific situation. What I got instead was a string of disappointments that felt like anything but answers. About a year later, I was venting to my mom about how frustrating it all was, and she just smiled and said, “Well, you’re wiser now, aren’t you? Looks like He answered you.”

That stopped me in my tracks. She was right. All those setbacks had shaped me in ways I couldn’t see at the time. They weren’t wasted—they were my lessons in disguise.

I’ll admit, I’d much prefer to gain wisdom from books, mentors, or someone else’s story (and I do try!). But some lessons you can only learn by walking through them yourself—getting a little muddy, making mistakes, and then pausing long enough to notice what they taught you.

Now, I try to build that reflection into everyday life—asking simple questions like, What went well? What didn’t? What can I learn from this? It’s amazing how even a few quiet minutes of honest reflection can turn ordinary experiences into meaningful insight for the future.

Chapter 8. Question Popular Thinking 

Maxwell tells about his friend’s childhood teacher who took the class outside one day to look through a telescope. Each child took a turn, one by one. The first student said they couldn’t see anything, so the teacher made a small adjustment. After that, the next classmate nodded and said he “saw it,” and soon every other student claimed they could see perfectly — one after another, all agreeing that the view was great.

Finally, it was the turn of the boy standing right before Maxwell’s friend — the next-to-last student in line. He looked through the telescope and frowned. “I still can’t see anything,” he said. The teacher, a little frustrated, grabbed the telescope to check for himself… and discovered the lens cap had been on the whole time. Every single student before him had just gone along with the crowd.

That story made me laugh, but it also made me think. How often do we do the same thing — nodding along, agreeing, or pretending to understand something because everyone else seems to? Maxwell’s point is simple but powerful: following the crowd doesn’t guarantee you’re right. Sometimes the safest-seeming choice is actually the one that keeps you blind.

It’s not always easy to think differently or ask questions when everyone else seems certain, but growth requires a willingness to pause, think for yourself, and sometimes stand apart. After all, clarity only comes when you’re brave enough to remove the lens cap.

Chapter 9. Benefit From Shared Thinking

Maxwell reminds us that great thinking doesn’t have to happen alone. He’s intentional about finding wisdom wherever it appears — from a child, a taxi driver, or even someone he usually disagrees with. The source doesn’t matter; what matters is the strength of the idea itself.

I was reminded of this recently while reading Thomas Erikson’s Surrounded by Idiots, a book about understanding how different people think and communicate. It reinforced how powerful diverse perspectives can be. When we’re willing to listen, our thinking becomes richer, sharper, and far more effective.

Maxwell sums it up beautifully: “Some of my best ideas didn’t come from me at all — they came from a friend’s perspective that made mine stronger.” The takeaway? Two humble thinkers will always beat one proud genius. When we’re willing to learn from others, our ideas can grow in ways we never could have imagined. (If you missed the review of Erikson’s book, you can find it here.)

10. Practice Unselfish Thinking 

Maxwell reminds us that the highest level of success is significance — when what you do blesses more than just you. True success isn’t about one person winning at the expense of another; it’s about creating something that lifts everyone involved.

-If I win and you lose, I only win once.
-If you win and I lose, you only win once.
-If we both lose, the partnership is over.
-But if we both win, we build something stronger — a connection that grows and keeps producing shared success.

I’ve found this to be true in my own life. When I pause to consider how my actions impact others, the outcome is always richer — more lasting, more meaningful.

The takeaway? Unselfish thinking isn’t just admirable; it’s essential. It’s the foundation of lasting success and truly significant relationships.

11. Rely on Bottom-Line Thinking

This one hit me hard because it’s so easy to mistake motion for meaning. We fill our days with busy work, checking tasks off a list, and think we’re making progress — when sometimes we’re just spinning our wheels. Bottom-line thinking is about stepping back and asking the hard question: “What really matters here? What’s the real win?”

A simple approach my husband introduced to me is asking:
“Will this matter in five years?” If the answer is no, it helps you zoom out, adjust your perspective, and keep your emotions from driving decisions that won’t have lasting impact. It’s a lesson I’m continually attempting to learn.

Maxwell teaches that bottom-line thinking keeps you focused on the actions and choices that make a real difference in your life, work, and relationships.

Last Thoughts

So, there you have it: eleven ways John Maxwell shows that successful people think differently — not because they’re superhuman, but because they choose to think on purpose.

I’m far from having them all figured out. I’m still learning to think bigger, deeper, and kinder. But this book gave me some gems I’ve been scribbling down for my own life — and I hope they might bless someone else too.

I’d love to hear from you: which of these ways of thinking stood out the most? And if you’d like to dive in for yourself, you can find the book here. That’s all for now — take care, stay curious, and I’ll see you next time. 🌿










Thursday, November 6, 2025

When Strivings Cease

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It was one of those quiet, sun-soaked mornings at the schoolhouse — the kind that hums with a soft sort of peace. While my students were out for a break, one of the boys came running up from the field, grinning from ear to ear, a single flower pinched delicately between his fingers.

“For you,” he said proudly, holding it out like treasure.

I tucked it behind my ear, and he beamed — satisfied that his gift had found its place. A few hours later, though, he noticed the petals beginning to droop. His smile faded. “It’s wilting,” he said, a little heartbroken. “Maybe we should put it in water.”

I smiled and told him that water might help it stay pretty for a little longer, but that, really, the flower had started dying the moment it was picked. It looked alive, but it had already been cut off from its source.

That moment stayed with me long after the school day ended. It reminded me of Jesus’ words in John 15: “I am the vine; you are the branches… apart from Me, you can do nothing.”

Sometimes, our lives can look just like that flower — bright and full of effort on the outside, yet quietly withering when we’re striving on our own instead of abiding in Him.

A few days later, a mysterious package arrived on my doorstep — no note, no return label. Inside were two books, both right up my alley, though I couldn’t imagine where they’d come from. When I mentioned it to my mom, she laughed and said, “Oh, those? I sent them. You’ve just seemed like you could use a few reminders lately.”

As usual, she wasn’t wrong.

One of those books was When Strivings Cease by Ruth Chou Simons. And as I began to read, it felt as if the Lord was gently continuing the same lesson He’d started with that little flower — a reminder that all my effort and doing, no matter how good or well-intentioned, can’t bring life apart from Him.

That little flower moment — and then the surprise package — made me pause and ask some uncomfortable questions. Where in my life have I been mistaking striving for growth? Where have I been trying to look alive instead of simply abiding?

If I’m honest, I’ve always been someone who loves a good goal. I like structure. I like checking boxes. I like the satisfaction of seeing progress. None of those things are bad, of course — but sometimes, my desire to “do things right” quietly drifts into trying to earn what’s already been given.

That’s why Ruth Chou Simons’ When Strivings Cease met me right where I was.

When I first started reading, I was struck by how Ruth writes with both gentleness and depth — like a friend who’s not afraid to tell you the truth, but does it with a grace that disarms you. The book is wrapped in beauty, not just because of Ruth’s watercolor art scattered throughout the pages, but because her words flow from a heart that’s been changed by the gospel she’s writing about.

What surprised me most, though, was how deeply personal her exploration of grace becomes when she speaks about her Chinese heritage. She writes with such honesty about growing up within an honor–shame culture — one where value often feels tied to performance, image, or meeting expectations. I didn’t realize how much of that same mindset had quietly shaped my own thoughts until I saw it named on the page. Her honesty gives language to things I’ve felt but never fully understood — that subtle pull to measure up, to keep performing, to be “enough.”

Through her story, Ruth shows that grace isn’t just a comforting idea; it’s a radical invitation to stop trying to earn love and simply receive it.

Reading When Strivings Cease felt like exhaling after holding my breath for far too long. Somewhere between chasing goals, keeping up, and trying to do everything “right,” I hadn’t realized how much of my energy had shifted from abiding to achieving.

Ruth’s words helped me see that striving isn’t always loud or obvious — sometimes it hides in good intentions, in wanting to serve well, or even in spiritual habits that subtly turn into scorecards. Her reminder that grace is the starting point, not the reward, landed right where I needed it.

Ruth’s words on grace and identity are some of the most freeing I’ve ever read. She writes,

“You don’t need to figure out how to be a model Christian, how to be more on fire for God, or even how to please God. If you’re in Christ, you’re already pleasing to Him because of Jesus.”

When I first read that, I actually went back and read it again — slowly the second time. Because if I’m honest, so much of my life has been spent trying to be “enough.” A good enough wife, daughter, friend, believer. Even in seasons of genuine faith, I can still slip into a pattern of proving. But Ruth reminds us that the gospel leaves no room for that — because grace already covered it all (Ephesians 2:8-9).

She continues,

“Your number one job as a believer is to return again and again to the good news of the gospel, the foundational truth of redeeming grace… You are made for good works, yes, but first and foremost you’re made for a relationship with God who enables that work.”

That line hit me right between the eyes: “first and foremost, you’re made for a relationship with God.” It’s so simple. And yet, it changes everything. When we flip the order — when we start doing for God before being with God — we end up exhausted. Our efforts become like that flower from the schoolyard, bright but already wilting (John 15:4-5).

Ruth’s reminder pulls us back to the heart of abiding. To grace that isn’t passive, but empowering — the kind that anchors orthodoxy and fuels orthopraxy. It’s not a call to stop doing altogether, but to stop doing apart from Him.

She paints this so vividly: orthodoxy is like light, the truth that illuminates our path, and orthopraxy is like heat, the warmth of faith lived out. We need both. Ruth writes that when we lean too far toward head knowledge without love, our faith becomes like an LED light — bright, but cold. It illuminates without giving warmth. But when we focus only on doing — on passion, justice, and causes apart from truth — our faith becomes like glowing embers: full of heat but quickly fading, unable to light the path for long-term hope (James 1:22; John 13:35).

That image stopped me. Because I’ve been both — cold light and fading embers. I’ve had seasons where I’ve known truth but lacked tenderness, and others where I burned bright for causes but lost my footing in the Word. Neither sustains. Only grace — only abiding — keeps both the light and the heat alive.

In a world that prizes self-help and hustle, Ruth’s message is like a deep exhale — a call to stop striving and start abiding. To trust that grace really is enough (Galatians 2:20).


Takeaway Reflections

  • Abiding isn’t passive — it’s where true growth begins (John 15:4).

  • Grace doesn’t erase effort; it redeems it (Ephesians 2:10).

  • You are not working for God’s approval, but from it (Romans 5:1).

  • The gospel gives rest to hearts that have been trying to earn what’s already theirs (Matthew 11:28-30).

If you’ve been feeling weary — tired from trying to hold it all together on your own strength — this book is a breath of fresh air. When Strivings Cease is not a book to rush through; it’s one to linger with. Every chapter invites reflection and would make a beautiful semester-long book club pick — the kind of read that sparks conversation and growth over time.

And that flower from earlier? I keep thinking about it- lovely for a moment, but already fading. I don’t want to live that way, bright but brittle. I want roots deep in the One who gives real life. That little flower was never meant to live apart from its stem, and neither are we meant to flourish apart from grace.

Maybe the most beautiful part of letting go of striving is realizing that what God wants most isn’t our performance — it’s our presence. That’s all for now. Take care, stay curious, and I’ll see you next time. 🌿






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